It has been my experience that, at any given time, I can traverse the widow/er blogs & have my very thoughts & feelings of that particular moment, transcribed into poignant words by at least one blogger. I could simply copy & paste (with full citations, of course) in the interest of the economy of words.
Thank you all, for effectively framing my own sentiments in your writings. We really are of a similar mindset, as a result of our widowed experiences.